~ m a t a k e h i d u p a n ~

"Kenangan itu kadangkala teramat pahit untuk diredah, tetapi ia terlalu manis untuk dikenang. Hidup tak selalunya indah tapi yang indah itu tetap hidup dalam kenangan.Andainya hadirnya cinta sekadar untuk mengecewakan, lebih baik cinta itu tak pernah hadir.Kecewa bercinta bukan bermakna dunia sudah berakhir.Masa depan yang cerah berdasarkan pada masa lalu yang telah dilupakan.Hidup ini indah jika kita tahu menghargainya. Tapi ia amat menyakitkan andai kita melaluinya sambil lewa."

Found this quote from one of the email forwarded from a friend of mine. Feels like its good to think and elaborate..

First line : Kenangan itu kadangkala teramat pahit untuk diredah, tetapi ia terlalu manis untuk dikenang

Yup.. that's right.. for some reason the things happened on the past might be hurt during that time but now bila ingat balik, sure best. Contohnye perkara² yg berlaku di zaman persekolahan.. like me, theres an incident mase darjah 6.. mase tuh mmg tgh famous game sumpit kacang hijau. memandangkan diriku ini merupakan seorg yg ala² boyish mase sekolah. so permainan ni antara game favorite la. until one day kitorg kantoi ngn guru besar, en ishak (stil remember his name). natijahnye, kitorg (6 of us) dihadapkan di perhimpunan pagi. and the best part is i'm the only flower among the bugs.. hiks!~

mase tu mmg la geram bila dipanggil but bila dikenangkan balik. thats one of my sweet memory. byk lg memori mase sekolah.. mase kat asrama.. uni, etc.. mungkin perit utk dilalui pada saat dan ketika itu, but sekarang ianya menjadi kenangan yg best..

Next : Andainya hadirnya cinta sekadar untuk mengecewakan, lebih baik cinta itu tak pernah hadir.

I've no comment bout this since xde lg experience berchenta.. but form my experiences as a consultant aka dr love to my friends.. i found out that if he is not meant to be with you, then let it be. mungkin mudah utk dikatakan n payah utk dilakukan but.. why should you care for a person who dont care about u.. and why are u suffering like h**l when that person laughing with his/her new girl/boy.. why should we torture ourself.. just believe that if theres someone are meant for u but u still didnt find it.. insyaALLAH. kalau ada jodoh tak kemana and HE knows whats the best for you. just pray that you will find your love one day.. amiin :)

Last quote : Hidup ini indah jika kita tahu menghargainya. Tapi ia amat menyakitkan andai kita melaluinya sambil lewa.

Rasanya quote ni most likely lebih kurang sama dgn the 1st line. cuma for this quote, it needs us to enjoy every moment spend in our life. irregardless if the situation is good, bad, cloudy or what. as long as you enjoy it u will find it interesting and valuable.

So, thats all about the quote.. apapepun, enjoy your life and dont make a things to be a stopping point for you. tak kisah how big is it and how stress the situation will, just go for it.. experience it.. and do it with your heart.. One day u will find it cool and memorable. akan ada hikmah di sebalik setiap kejadian dan bersyukurlah dengan segala apa yg kita ada. dont u ever have that 'regret' in your dictionary.. no regret ok. stand with whatever decision made. face it.

So renung2 kan dan selamat beramal~ **wink